Affirming the Container

Via Scoop.itHealthcare Continuing Education

Too often we mistakenly believe that we must first solve all of our relationship problems before we can be happy. If we somehow know we can’t solve them all, then at the very least we believe that we must first solve our most significant relationship problems, the ones we grind ourselves against until we are raw, before we can relax, be happy, and simply love each other. Holding ourselves off from intimacy because we need this problem to go away first is a trap. If you drag your relationship into this trap, it will happily chew it up, spit it out, and ask for more.
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